This past week I have been driving the struggle bus. I will be honest… my bus broke down. I have been juggling way too many plates, my mother in law just moved in and it isn’t exactly going well, and I have had to put my needs on hold. To say I was a fish out of water drowning was the understatement of the century.

So to put it bluntly, I had a little meltdown. Then I took the morning off. It was Friday, I luckily have Fridays off for the summer semester. So i dropped my daughter off at daycare and my son to my parents for his virtual school and I went shopping. I definitely did not go to ALL my favorite places. but I walked around the outlets, went to the Disney store and got myself some cute tees for yoga. Then bought those scrubs I have been meaning to get for the last 4 months and a few other little odd things. The point is… I had been putting myself off. Telling the Universe I needed scrubs and then not getting what I needed was sending the wrong message. I was basically telling the universe that my needs didn’t matter. I tell my clients that the universe is like a drive through, you place your order with your words snd actions and then get what you ask for. I had stopped asking….

So to all you people, women, men, parents ect… stop putting yourself and your needs off. If you need something try if it is financially responsible to do so, to take care of it right away. If finances are an issue, ask the universe to deliver what you need in another way. Don’t put yourself or your needs on the back burner.